This day, this morning, December 31st — the absolute last gasp of 2017 — a choice presents itself. Shall I whinge? Shall I whoop?
What I leave behind in 2017: my 50’s, my ovaries, appendix and assumption of immortality. On politics? I gladly leave behind any further fury or speculation. On writing: I leave the year with barely any pages in my files. A new woman looks back at me in the mirror. I lost the other one in April.
But. The gains!
So so many acquaintances and friends gave me unexpected love, stepped forward and shepherded me through the two surgeries and recoveries, ones I didn’t even know had my phone number. I reconnected with far-away family. Writer friends patiently read my work over and over as I got my anesthesia brain cleared, never judged, their patience putting momentum into me once again. Friends and family and strangers pulled off a wedding in a hurricane. A young woman preached self care to me daily and gave me courage.
A son-in-law. My children achieved success. 4,500 people read my blog posts. A tumor shrunk. A new belly button. The Nest awaits me.
In an hour I will take a bubble bath and put on my Gronk socks, wrestle the pot of chili next door, listen to football f-bombs and laugh. It is what it is on this last day of 2017. Importantly, I also know what I want it to be in 2018 and what I believe I can do. Despite.
A friend said to me in April, “You have to be brave.” But I also would say, “So many people will help you do that. Let them.”
The WHOOP won. Welcome, New Year. Thank you, readers, critics, friends and strangers for all you have given me. It far outweighs the other. We survived it.
Let me make this short and sweet so you can get back to your bubbly.
Kicking your butt out the door, 2017.
See you in 2018.
6 thoughts on “Short and Sweet: We Survived It.”
Thanks, Alexandra. Stay positive. I’ve been following your odyssey and keeping the faith with you. I’m sorry we don’t see each other these days but hope we’ll reconnect sometime in 2018. Happy New Year.
That’s the spirit Alex! Love to you and yours.
Your words always leave me inspired. Here’s to a happy and healthy 2018!
So good to run into you the other day & exchange hugs!
Thanks for your whoops & prayers for your whinges!
May blessings swirl around you this coming year & those to come.
What grace to have loving family & friends to lighten your life.
May your life’s moments be filled with wonder, joy & healing.
Quietly admiring each of your posts and grit, Alex. All happiness and good wishes for 2018.
And quietly admiring your travels and interests, Mary Kay Feather! See you at a reading very soon.